Addicts have complaints

Addicts have complaints, including major and minor grievances. Some of the grievances may or may not have truth to them. The only reason what they bring them up is to make you and them feel guilt and shame, that way they have a reason to smoke, drink, shoot….. Get high again…… Families may have caused them pain, they may have failed them in some way. Addicts do not bring up these occasions to clear the air or to reconcile… They bring them up to stir up the guilt and shame….. This is how they manipulate others in pursuit of their continued addiction……… It’s not our fault. That is what we have to remember. It is not our fault…. Am I talking to myself here, probably, but we must remember that it is not our fault….


About forpetessakeessentials

I am a Certified, licensed faith based counselor. By the end of the summer I plan to complete my Naturopath. So, I will be called Dr. Kelli ! LOL! This is so exciting!!! I love foraging, alternative methods of healing, essential oils and my family. I have a personal relationship with Jesus and it is by HIS grace that I am a cancer survivor. I have a great story to tell and I love to bless others with what Jesus has done for me. I am married, going through the struggles of marriage, have 5 children, all blessings from God with their own struggles. I am here for them and others as the Lord wills. I am the founder of Set Free Recovery a 501c3 organization that counsels those that seek to be free from drugs and alcohol.... If you would like my testimony, please contact me. I would be glad to share it with you. I am also available for speaking events. If you have one coming up, contact me to get on the schedule...
This entry was posted in Addiction, Hopelessness and tagged , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s